The Disillusionment of Your Professional Self

Even Dad, (a career Marine) had a bout of sincere discontent with a superior officer.

The Right to Remain Silent

Off-duty, but over-identifying. Emerson thought it was weird he didn’t know the other two pilots on duty.

You Don’t Need Research, You Need Therapy

If I had a nickel for every time a research respondent walked away feeling like they’d been to therapy…I’d be rich.

Takes One To Know One

You know the phrase, “you can’t bullshit a bullshitter?” I’ve always understood this, being a self-proclaimed bullshitter. The only person who can really tell if I am lying is my mother, and even though she thinks she knows, she doesn’t always.  In the world of business, I contend that in leadership and bosshood, there is […]

YCTTJASI*- part II

Another friend of mine told me about her quitting her part time job in West Oakland, back in the day. This was when she was in her twenties, ahead-of-her-time progressive, and worked in a well-lit, educational, safe and friendly Sex Shoppe in the late 1990s/early 2000s. This shop sold sex toys, porn videos, how-to advice […]

Drinking from the Firehose

The euphemism is thrown around a lot during someone’s first week/month/quarter at a new workplace. When a veteran at the startup asks a newbie, “How’s it going? You picking up what we putting down? Or as Anna Weiner’s crew in Uncanny Valley says, “You down for the cause?” A typical newbie response, if they’re savvy […]

On Friendly Bullying…

I used to own a Bouvier, a dog that is about 120 pounds of powerful fluff. When I first inherited him, he was about 3 years old, and pretty well trained, but not yet neutered. Other dog owners scolded me and told me his enthusiasm for play and full body contact with other dogs of […]

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Bad Bosses

I’m working for myself now and I have to admit I am THE WORST boss I have ever had. I don’t plan ahead strategically, I expect the work to be stellar but I don’t ask for help or provide the time for proper training. I sit down and I expect myself to just shit it […]

My Work Husband

When I start a new job I like to find a work husband. A work husband is a person that I can eat lunch with, someone I can ask about other things not related to my job that are none of my business but I am curious and need to know. Ideally this man sits […]